What’s your floor space Knighty? You haven’t mentioned that bit as it will help us all with how big is big.
I used heat punk to work out my heat loss for a 1880,s solid stone cottage and when using other comparisons my figure and others match well at around 5kW so I rate the heat punk software. 84 sq meters so quite a tiny floor area compared with some others on the forum.
Heat geek have a heat loss cheat sheet that’s useful to cross reference to.
https://www.heatgeek.com/how-to-size-my ... eat-sheet/
As I noted before - depending on room habitation and uses you might find some areas are more sensibly heated by far infrared panels so you heat the people not the air volume.
That way you can focus on the core rooms that are used routinely with ASHP technology to get your energy advantage that this technology provides. Thereafter as time and money allow you can bring more areas into use and more thermally efficient.
It’s all dependent on your plans for habitation, the funds available and the building size as to your options.
Would you consider EWI or is the exterior finish of the house something that you want / have to keep as is ?
Moxi