]Whether the DNO is allowing you an extra 4kW or 5.4kW inverter is debatable and so is whether you have another 1.4kW of additional export allowance or not. Their response to you does not match your current system but it may match what you told them if you said you have a 7.4kW system. They may have assumed you already have 7.4kW of inverter power which you don't.
I resubmitted G99 and received approval for an additional 5kW inverter (I specified LX5K hybrid) subject to 7.4kW export limit.
Taking your advice so far (very much appreciated all contributions) this is my preference: maximize generation, not disturb FIT, plan for and cable for battery but wait one year to see the export justifies a battery, do the work this year, take delivery of 2nd EV (77kW battery) late 2021 or early 2022, defer usage cut-backs until I see where all that leaves me (net zero), the fall-back position is usage cut-backs or more PV direct to battery.
Btw, what is an LX5K compared to LX5KHB?
I can fit 26 more standard size panels on a South-facing roof - should I part-fill with high-rated panels (leave room for more) or fill space with lower-rated panels (better visually)?