Do you have an example of a suitable set including above or what SPD shall i buy?
I used one of these https://www.tlc-direct.co.uk/Products/MK6820S.html. You will need two extra ways in the CU for it, there are some 1-way ones also https://www.tlc-direct.co.uk/Products/WYNMT2SPD3W1.html which would then all go in a 4-way CU but more expensive. See note above re swapping N and E connections if you have a TT system.
AFAiK TLC sell all the rest of the bits, so do CEF and most wholesalers
Do I still need AC isolator if I have above?
Yes unless you can find a lockable RCD because the MCS/IET spec requires it to be two pole and lockable.
Does this mean that using a standard connection if something goes wrong with inverter I won't have power at home from the grid?
If the whole house is fed through the inverter as with my Victron then yes. If the inverter is installed in a grid parallel fashion then maybe no. But it will not then give you the UPS capability because the inverter will trip on loss-of-mains. An ideal solution would be to have a separate relay which reverts to the grid on inverter failure but I have not implemented it because of cost and space considerations.